My weakness consists in not having a discriminating eye…
““My weakness consists in not having a discriminating eye for the incidental --- for the externals, --- no eye for the hod of the rag-picker or the fine linen of the next mean. Next man---that's it. I have met so many men." he pursued, with momentary sadness--- "met them too with a certain, certain impact, let us say; like this fellow, for instance--- and in each case all I could see was merely a human being. A confounded democratic quality of vision which may be better than total blindness, but has been of no advantage to me-- I can assure you. Men expect one to take into account their fine linen. But I never could get up any enthusiasm about these things. Oh! It's a failing; and then comes a soft evening; a lot of men too indolent for whist-- and a story…" [p.44]””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
He observes that focusing on superficial differences blinds us to shared humanity.
In simple terms: Seeing beyond appearances reveals common humanity.
Look past external labels.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace interactions
- political discourse
- community building
- education
- media consumption
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you practice seeing the person beyond status?
- What biases limit your empathy?
Overemphasis on details can cause paralysis.