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“There comes a time in a man's life, if he is unlucky and leads a full life, when he has a secret so dirty that he knows he never will get rid of it. (Shakespeare knew this and tried to say it, but he said it just as badly as anyone ever said it. 'All the perfumes of Arabia' makes you think of all…” quote by John O'Hara
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““There comes a time in a man's life, if he is unlucky and leads a full life, when he has a secret so dirty that he knows he never will get rid of it. (Shakespeare knew this and tried to say it, but he said it just as badly as anyone ever said it. 'All the perfumes of Arabia' makes you think of all the perfumes of Arabia and nothing more. It is the trouble with all metaphors where human behavior is concerned. People are not ships, chess men, flowers, race horses, oil paintings, bottles of champagne, excrement, musical instruments or anything else but people. Metaphors are all right to give you an idea.)””

John O'Hara

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A person can carry a deep, shameful secret that feels inescapable, and attempts to describe it often fail, especially with metaphor.

In simple terms: Secrets can feel permanent and hard to express.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge secrets without over‑relying on metaphor.

Themes

guilt secrecy communication

Mood

somber reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal confession
  • therapy sessions
  • literary analysis

Key Concepts

psychology metaphor human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What truth are you avoiding?
  • How can you speak plainly about hidden guilt?
A Different Perspective

Metaphors may obscure rather than clarify personal pain.

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