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There is no deception on the part of the woman, where a…

“There is no deception on the part of the woman, where a man bewilders himself: if he deludes his own wits, I can certainly acquit the women. Whatever man allows his mind to dwell upon the imprint his imagination has foolishly taken of women, is fanning the flames within himself -- and, since the…” quote by John Gower
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““There is no deception on the part of the woman, where a man bewilders himself: if he deludes his own wits, I can certainly acquit the women. Whatever man allows his mind to dwell upon the imprint his imagination has foolishly taken of women, is fanning the flames within himself -- and, since the woman knows nothing about it, she is not to blame. For if a man incites himself to drown, and will not restrain himself, it is not the water's fault.””

John Gower

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A man’s self‑deception about women is his own fault; blame lies with his imagination, not the woman.

In simple terms: Men blame women for fantasies they create.

Key Takeaway

Own your thoughts and avoid projecting onto others.

Themes

responsibility perception gender relations

Mood

reflective critical

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • self‑reflection
  • media literacy

Key Concepts

psychology ethics literature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal narratives do you project onto others?
  • How can you check your assumptions before blaming?
A Different Perspective

Ignoring self‑deception can harm relationships.

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