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Stress is a choice. Do you buy that? Some people have a…

“Stress is a choice. Do you buy that? Some people have a hard time with the idea. Yes, bad things happen: The economy sours, our business struggles, the stock market tumbles, jobs are lost, people around us don't follow through, deadlines are missed, projects fail, good people leave. Life is full…” quote by John G. Miller
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“Stress is a choice. Do you buy that? Some people have a hard time with the idea. Yes, bad things happen: The economy sours, our business struggles, the stock market tumbles, jobs are lost, people around us don't follow through, deadlines are missed, projects fail, good people leave. Life is full of these. But still, stress is a choice because whatever the 'trigger event,' we always choose our own response. We choose to react angrily. We choose to stuff our emotions and keep quiet. We choose to worry. Stress is a choice.”

John G. Miller

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Stress results from our responses to events; choosing calm over reaction reduces suffering.

In simple terms: Stress is a response you can control.

Key Takeaway

Choose calm reactions to stressors.

Themes

stress management choice resilience

Mood

reflective determined

Type

motivational practical

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • personal relationships
  • health crises
  • financial setbacks

Key Concepts

cognitive control emotional regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What triggers your stress response?
  • How can you reframe reactions?
A Different Perspective

External events may limit the ability to choose calm.

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