Everyone knows the experience of encountering other…
““Everyone knows the experience of encountering other persons only under the aspect of how they intersect with our projects, and of noticing them only insofar as we have to notice them in order to interact with them as we pursue our goals. But from time to time we realize more keenly that the other with whom we are dealing is a person, and then we feel the irreverence and the arrogance of our attitude. We become aware of a certain violence with which we have been treating other persons; we realize that we have to draw back and grant them a space in which to be themselves as persons, and that we have to cease seeing them exclusively in relation to our projects.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
We often see people as tools for goals, but must recognize their full humanity and give them space.
In simple terms: Treat others as persons, not objects.
Respect others’ autonomy.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace interactions
- friendships
- community building
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What steps can you take to see people beyond utility?
Changing deep habits is challenging.