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“There are persons whom in my heart I despise, others I abhor. Yet I am not obliged to inform the one of my contempt, nor the other of my detestation. This kind of dissimulation...is a necessary branch of wisdom, and so far from being immoral...that it is a duty and a virtue.” quote by John Adams
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“There are persons whom in my heart I despise, others I abhor. Yet I am not obliged to inform the one of my contempt, nor the other of my detestation. This kind of dissimulation...is a necessary branch of wisdom, and so far from being immoral...that it is a duty and a virtue.”

John Adams

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Expresses that one can conceal contempt for others as a strategic, moral choice, framing deception as a virtue in certain contexts.

In simple terms: Hiding dislike can be wise and morally acceptable.

Key Takeaway

Consider when discretion serves greater good.

Themes

ethics politics self‑control

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • political negotiations
  • courtly conduct
  • personal relationships
  • conflict avoidance

Key Concepts

strategic deception virtue ethics social diplomacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is it justified to hide true feelings?
  • Does secrecy protect or harm relationships?
A Different Perspective

Deception can erode trust if overused.

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