The public debate plays out in an infinite regress of…
““The public debate plays out in an infinite regress of blame over who’s responsible for those who fail to fit the standard erotic mold. This is variously ascribed to the people choosing to be the deviants they are, porn, the Devil (always a shoo-in), bad parents, poor role models, our sexually repressed culture, or the psychiatrists who keep needling sexual minorities by branding them mentally ill. It’s a rabbit hole of endless (and usually endlessly bad) arguments. Morally, all that matters—and allow me to reiterate that because I feel it’s quite important, all that matters—is whether a person’s sexual deviancy is demonstrably harmful. If it’s not, and we reject the person anyway, then we’re not the good guys in this scenario; we’re the bad guys.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Moral judgment should focus on harm, not labeling diverse sexualities as deviant.
In simple terms: Judge sexual differences by harm, not stigma.
Prioritize harm assessment over moral condemnation.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- policy making
- counseling
- public discourse
- education
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When does personal preference become harmful?
- How can societies protect minorities while addressing genuine harm?
Harm can be subjective, complicating judgments.