A securely attached child will store an internal working…
““A securely attached child will store an internal working model of a responsive, loving, reliable care-giver, and of a self that is worthy of love and attention and will bring these assumptions to bear on all other relationships. Conversely, an insecurely attached child may view the world as a dangerous place in which other people are to be treated with great caution, and see himself as ineffective and unworthy of love. These assumptions are relatively stable and enduring: those built up in the early years of life are particularly persistent and unlikely to be modified by subsequent experience.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Secure attachment leads to a positive self‑view and trust in others; insecure attachment creates fear and low self‑worth, shaping future relationships.
In simple terms: Early bonds shape how we see ourselves and others.
Cultivate secure, early relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- therapy
- education
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How have early experiences shaped your trust?
- Can new experiences reshape attachment?
Changing deep‑seated beliefs later in life can be difficult.