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“there is not one in a hundred of either sex, who is not taken in when they marry. ... it is, of all transactions, the one in which people expect most from others, and are least honest themselves.” quote by Jane Austen
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“there is not one in a hundred of either sex, who is not taken in when they marry. ... it is, of all transactions, the one in which people expect most from others, and are least honest themselves.”

Jane Austen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People expect the most honesty from spouses yet often are the least honest themselves.

In simple terms: Marriages involve high expectations but low self‑honesty.

Key Takeaway

Be realistic about expectations in relationships.

Themes

marriage trust expectations

Mood

reflective critical

Type

advice relationship

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage counseling
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

honesty self‑deception social contracts

Questions to Reflect On

  • What expectations do you hold that you might be unfair to your partner?
  • How can you foster mutual honesty in a relationship?
A Different Perspective

People may also be honest with themselves but not with partners.

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