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“If you are not so compassionate as to dine to-day with Louisa and me, we shall be in danger of hating each other for the rest of our lives, for a whole day's tête-à-tête between two women can never end without a quarrel.” quote by Jane Austen
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““If you are not so compassionate as to dine to-day with Louisa and me, we shall be in danger of hating each other for the rest of our lives, for a whole day's tête-à-tête between two women can never end without a quarrel.””

Jane Austen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Compassionate, shared meals prevent lasting resentment between friends.

In simple terms: Eating together keeps friendships from souring.

Key Takeaway

Share meals to maintain harmony.

Themes

friendship communication compassion

Mood

warm reflective

Type

literary conversational

When to use this quote

  • dinner dates
  • team lunches
  • family meals

Key Concepts

social bonding conflict avoidance

Questions to Reflect On

  • Will you prioritize shared time over convenience?
  • How does regular connection affect long‑term relationships?
A Different Perspective

If one party is unwilling, the benefit disappears.

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