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“To talk over a quarrel, with its inevitable accompaniment of self-justification, is too much like handling cobwebs to be very successful.” quote by Margaret Deland
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“To talk over a quarrel, with its inevitable accompaniment of self-justification, is too much like handling cobwebs to be very successful.”

Margaret Deland

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Quarrels become tangled like cobwebs when self‑justification dominates, leading to failure.

In simple terms: Arguments get messy when everyone defends themselves.

Key Takeaway

Avoid self‑justification to resolve conflict.

Themes

communication conflict resolution self‑justification logic

Mood

reflective practical

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • family disputes
  • workplace meetings
  • political debates

Key Concepts

psychology philosophy literature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What prevents honest dialogue in arguments?
  • How can you untangle a heated discussion?
A Different Perspective

Some may view self‑justification as necessary self‑defense.

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