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“Children in home-school conflict situations often receive a double message from their parents: "The school is the hope for your future, listen, be good and learn" and "the school is your enemy. . . ." Children who receive the "school is the enemy" message often go after the enemy--act up…” quote by James P. Comer
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“Children in home-school conflict situations often receive a double message from their parents: "The school is the hope for your future, listen, be good and learn" and "the school is your enemy. . . ." Children who receive the "school is the enemy" message often go after the enemy--act up, undermine the teacher, undermine the school program, or otherwise exercise their veto power.”

James P. Comer

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Children receive conflicting messages about school, leading them to rebel when they view it as hostile.

In simple terms: Mixed messages cause kids to act out against school.

Key Takeaway

Provide consistent, supportive messaging.

Themes

education family dynamics communication

Mood

concerned hopeful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • parent‑teacher meetings
  • school counseling
  • family workshops

Key Concepts

psychology social influence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can families present school positively?
  • What strategies reduce perceived school hostility?
A Different Perspective

Parents may struggle to change entrenched beliefs.

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