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Then Eomer was silent, and looked on his sister, as if…

“Then Eomer was silent, and looked on his sister, as if pondering anew all the days of their past life together. But Aragorn said: "I saw also what you saw, Eomer. Few other griefs amid the ill chances of this world have more bitterness and shame for a man's heart than to behold the love of a lady…” quote by J.R.R. Tolkien
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““Then Eomer was silent, and looked on his sister, as if pondering anew all the days of their past life together. But Aragorn said: "I saw also what you saw, Eomer. Few other griefs amid the ill chances of this world have more bitterness and shame for a man's heart than to behold the love of a lady so fair and brave that cannot be returned. Sorrow and pity have followed me ever since I left her desperate in Dunharrow and rode to the Paths of the Dead; and no fear upon that way was so present as the fear for what might befall her. And yet, Eomer, I say to you that she loves you more truly than me; for you she loves and knows; but in me she loves only a shadow and a thought: a hope of glory and great deeds, and lands far from the fields of Rohan.””

J.R.R. Tolkien

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Aragorn expresses deep sorrow over unrequited love, comparing it to profound grief and shame, while urging Eomer to recognize true affection.

In simple terms: Unrequited love causes deep sorrow and shame.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge and honor true love.

Themes

love grief honor

Mood

melancholic poetic

Type

mythic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • family loss
  • war
  • personal sacrifice

Key Concepts

mythic romance heroic duty

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you cope with love that cannot be returned?
  • What does true honor mean in relationships?
A Different Perspective

Love may remain unreciprocated, causing lasting pain.

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