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“Love is always ready to deny itself, to give, sacrifice, just in the measure of its sincerity and intensity. Perfect love is perfect self-forgetfulness. Hence where there is love in a home, unselfishness is the law. Each forgets self and lives for others. But where there is selfishness it mars…” quote by J.R. Miller
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““Love is always ready to deny itself, to give, sacrifice, just in the measure of its sincerity and intensity. Perfect love is perfect self-forgetfulness. Hence where there is love in a home, unselfishness is the law. Each forgets self and lives for others. But where there is selfishness it mars joy. One selfish soul will destroy the sweetness of life in any home. It is like an ugly bush in the midst of a garden of flowers. It was selfishness that destroyed the first home and blighted all the loveliness of Paradise; and it has been blighting lovely things in earth's home ever since. We need to guard against this spirit.””

J.R. Miller

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love requires self‑sacrifice and sincerity; perfect love erases self‑interest, fostering mutual joy, while selfishness corrupts harmony.

In simple terms: Love thrives on self‑forgetfulness; selfishness ruins happiness.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate self‑less love, guard against selfishness.

Themes

love self‑sacrifice community joy selfishness

Mood

reflective hopeful serious

Type

philosophical inspirational advice

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • friendships
  • team projects
  • community service
  • relationships

Key Concepts

altruism egoism spirituality

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you recognize selfish patterns in yourself?
  • What practices help nurture self‑less love?
A Different Perspective

Selfishness may be rooted in fear or survival instincts, making it hard to eliminate completely.

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