In her insightful Of Woman Born (1976), Adrienne Rich said…
““In her insightful Of Woman Born (1976), Adrienne Rich said it very eloquently: “My children cause me the most exquisite suffering of which I have any experience. It is the suffering of ambivalence: the murderous alternation between bitter resentment and raw-edged nerves, and blissful gratification and tenderness.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Motherhood can bring intense love mixed with deep, conflicting pain and ambivalence.
In simple terms: Motherhood brings love and painful ambivalence.
Accept and navigate mixed emotions.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- self‑reflection
- counseling
- writing
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you honor both love and pain in parenting?
- What strategies help balance ambivalence?
The quote idealifies the difficulty of reconciling love and resentment.