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Surely a man must be in a parlours state to excite pity…

“Surely a man must be in a parlours state to excite pity, extremely weak to inspire sympathy, or very evil-looking to make a soul tremble in a den like this, where pain must hold its tongue, poverty remain cheerful, and despair retain its self respect.” quote by Honoré de Balzac
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““Surely a man must be in a parlours state to excite pity, extremely weak to inspire sympathy, or very evil-looking to make a soul tremble in a den like this, where pain must hold its tongue, poverty remain cheerful, and despair retain its self respect.””

Honoré de Balzac

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The passage describes how extreme suffering can evoke pity, sympathy, or fear, depending on the observer's perception of weakness or evil.

In simple terms: Suffering can inspire different emotional responses.

Key Takeaway

Consider how context shapes empathy.

Themes

suffering empathy perception social class humanity

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • poverty relief
  • mental health care
  • social services
  • community support

Key Concepts

psychology social critique literary analysis

Questions to Reflect On

  • What triggers pity versus fear?
  • How does class affect our response to suffering?
A Different Perspective

Emotions may be manipulated by presenting suffering in certain ways.

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