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“It's not that I want you to be a certain way--don't you want a boyfriend?" "Why bother with that? Let's find incubi." "Incubi?" "Demons. Plural. Like octopi. And we're much more likely to find them"--her voice dropped conspiratorially--"while swimming naked in the Atlantic a week before Halloween…” quote by Holly Black
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“It's not that I want you to be a certain way--don't you want a boyfriend?" "Why bother with that? Let's find incubi." "Incubi?" "Demons. Plural. Like octopi. And we're much more likely to find them"--her voice dropped conspiratorially--"while swimming naked in the Atlantic a week before Halloween than practically anywhere else I can think of.”

Holly Black

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker mocks romantic expectations, suggesting darker, more chaotic desires dominate.

In simple terms: People often crave danger over romance.

Key Takeaway

Question what truly drives desire.

Themes

desire darkness subversion

Mood

playful provocative

Type

literary conversational

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • creative writing
  • personal introspection

Key Concepts

psychology mythology sexuality

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we fear the unknown?
  • How do fantasies shape identity?
A Different Perspective

Romantic ideals still hold value for many.

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