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Better marry a maiden, so you can teach her good manners…

“Better marry a maiden, so you can teach her good manners, and in particular marry one who lives close by you. Look her well over first. Don't marry what will make your neighbors laugh at you, for while there's nothing better a man can win him than a good wife, there's nothing more dismal than a…” quote by Hesiod
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““Better marry a maiden, so you can teach her good manners, and in particular marry one who lives close by you. Look her well over first. Don't marry what will make your neighbors laugh at you, for while there's nothing better a man can win him than a good wife, there's nothing more dismal than a bad one.””

Hesiod

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Advises marrying a local, well‑mannered woman to avoid social ridicule and ensure a good partnership.

In simple terms: Choose a good, nearby wife.

Key Takeaway

Seek compatible, respected partners.

Themes

marriage social standing compatibility

Mood

reflective practical

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • family planning
  • social expectations

Key Concepts

family community reputation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What qualities matter most in a partner?
  • How does community influence marriage choices?
A Different Perspective

Cultural norms may differ today.

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