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In a pure society, the subject of marriage would not be so…

“In a pure society, the subject of marriage would not be so often avoided,--from shame and not from reverence, winked out of sight,and hinted at only; but treated naturally and simply,--perhaps simply avoided like the kindred mysteries. If it cannot be spoken of for shame, how can it be acted of?…” quote by Henry David Thoreau
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“In a pure society, the subject of marriage would not be so often avoided,--from shame and not from reverence, winked out of sight,and hinted at only; but treated naturally and simply,--perhaps simply avoided like the kindred mysteries. If it cannot be spoken of for shame, how can it be acted of? But, doubtless, there is far more purity, as well as more impurity, than is apparent.”

Henry David Thoreau

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Society hides marriage behind shame, preventing open discussion and healthy practice.

In simple terms: Shame blocks honest talk about marriage.

Key Takeaway

Encourage open, respectful conversation.

Themes

society shame marriage

Mood

thoughtful contemplative

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • family counseling
  • religious communities
  • educational settings

Key Concepts

cultural norms psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why is marriage considered taboo?
  • What benefits arise from speaking openly about it?
A Different Perspective

Avoiding the topic can increase misunderstanding and stigma.

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