Every time we make the decision to love someone, we open…
““Every time we make the decision to love someone, we open ourselves to great suffering, because those we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. The greatest pain comes from leaving. When the child leaves home, when the husband or wife leaves for a long period of time or for good, when the beloved friend departs to another country or dies … the pain of the leaving can tear us apart. Still, if we want to avoid the suffering of leaving, we will never experience the joy of loving. And love is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Loving involves risk of loss, but avoiding love prevents joy; love outweighs fear and pain.
In simple terms: Love brings joy and pain; risk is worth it.
Embrace love despite fear.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- Relationship building
- grieving processes
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Are you willing to risk pain for love?
- How can you balance fear and hope?
Love may lead to deep hurt.