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Is God present or is he absent? Maybe we can say now that…

“Is God present or is he absent? Maybe we can say now that in the center of our sadness for his absence we can find the first signs of his presence. And that in the middle of our longings we discover the footprints of the one who has created them. It is in the faithful waiting for the loved one…” quote by Henri J.M. Nouwen
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““Is God present or is he absent? Maybe we can say now that in the center of our sadness for his absence we can find the first signs of his presence. And that in the middle of our longings we discover the footprints of the one who has created them. It is in the faithful waiting for the loved one that we know how much he has filled our lives already. Just as the love of a mother for her son can grow while she is waiting for his return, and just as lovers can rediscover each other during long periods of absence, so also our intimate relationship with God can become deeper and more mature while we wait patiently in expectation for his return.””

Henri J.M. Nouwen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Spiritual longing reveals God's presence in absence; waiting deepens faith and love.

In simple terms: Waiting can reveal God's presence.

Key Takeaway

Embrace patient expectation.

Themes

faith patience longing relationship

Mood

contemplative hopeful

Type

spiritual inspirational

When to use this quote

  • grief counseling
  • marriage counseling
  • personal prayer
  • spiritual retreats

Key Concepts

theology spiritual growth presence in absence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does waiting change your perception of God?
  • What signs of presence have you missed?
A Different Perspective

Absence may also cause doubt or despair.

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