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But I can't bear it when somebody who some man made a pass…

“But I can't bear it when somebody who some man made a pass at - to call that violence seems to me absurd and insulting to women who've really met violence, who've been raped or bashed.” quote by Helen Garner
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“But I can't bear it when somebody who some man made a pass at - to call that violence seems to me absurd and insulting to women who've really met violence, who've been raped or bashed.”

Helen Garner

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Condemns trivializing serious violence as a mere “pass,” calling it disrespectful to real victims.

In simple terms: Calling assault a “pass” is absurd and insulting.

Key Takeaway

Reject minimizing language for violence.

Themes

gender violence respect

Mood

serious empathetic

Type

critical advocacy

When to use this quote

  • media commentary
  • legal discourse
  • educational curricula

Key Concepts

mischaracterization social awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does language shape perception of violence?
  • What words honor victims' experiences?
A Different Perspective

Some may argue language evolves.

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