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“People's sense of self worth is pivotal to their ability to look clearly at the hurt they've caused. The more solid one's sense of self regard, the more likely that that person can feel empathy and compassion for the hurt party, and apologize from an authentic center.” quote by Harriet Lerner
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““People's sense of self worth is pivotal to their ability to look clearly at the hurt they've caused. The more solid one's sense of self regard, the more likely that that person can feel empathy and compassion for the hurt party, and apologize from an authentic center.””

Harriet Lerner

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A strong, stable self‑esteem enables honest self‑reflection, fostering empathy and genuine apologies for harm caused.

In simple terms: Self‑worth helps see own hurt and feel compassion.

Key Takeaway

Build self‑esteem to apologize sincerely.

Themes

self‑esteem empathy accountability relationships

Mood

reflective hopeful serious

Type

advice psychological motivational

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth
  • therapy sessions
  • team feedback
  • family discussions

Key Concepts

psychology emotional intelligence authenticity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your self‑image affect your willingness to admit fault?
  • What steps can strengthen self‑reg before apologizing?
A Different Perspective

If self‑worth is fragile, apologies may feel defensive or insincere.

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