I treasure ruefully some memories of W.H. Auden that go…
““I treasure ruefully some memories of W.H. Auden that go back to the middle 1960s, when he arrived in New Haven to give a reading of his poems at Ezra Stiles College. We had met several times before, in New York City and at Yale, but were only acquaintances. The earlier Auden retains my interest, but much of the frequently devotional poetry does not find me. Since our mutual friend John Hollander was abroad, Auden phoned to ask if he might stay with my wife and me, remarking of his dislike of college guest suites. The poet arrived in a frayed, buttonless overcoat, which my wife insisted on mending. His luggage was an attache case containing a large bottle of gin, a small one of vermouth, a plastic drinking cup, and a sheaf of poems. After being supplied with ice, he requested that I remind him of the amount of his reading fee. A thousand dollars had been the agreed sum, a respectable honorarium more than forty years ago. He shook his head and said that as a prima donna he could not perform, despite the prior arrangement. Charmed by this, I phoned the college master - a good friend - who cursed heartily but doubled the sum when I assured him that the poet was as obdurate as Lady Bracknell in 'The Importance of Being Earnest'. Informed of this yielding, Auden smiled sweetly and was benign and brilliant at dinner, then at the reading, and as he went to bed after we got home.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A nostalgic recount of Auden’s eccentricities and the tension between artistic ego and hospitality.
In simple terms: Auden’s quirks reveal the clash of artistic pride and modest settings.
Recognize and accommodate artistic temperaments.
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When to use this quote
- academic conferences
- literary readings
- hosting artists
- cultural exchanges
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you navigate guest expectations with artistic personalities?
- What boundaries are appropriate when hosting creators?
Auden’s refusal may reflect deeper financial or artistic concerns.