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“My second wife left me because she said I was too ambitious. She didn't realize that it is only the dying who are free from ambition. And they probably have the ambition to live. Some men disguise their ambition--that's all. I was in a position to help this young man my wife loved. He soon showed…” quote by Graham Greene
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““My second wife left me because she said I was too ambitious. She didn't realize that it is only the dying who are free from ambition. And they probably have the ambition to live. Some men disguise their ambition--that's all. I was in a position to help this young man my wife loved. He soon showed his ambition then. There are different types of ambition - that is all, and my wife found she preferred mine. Because it was limitless. They do not feel the infinite is an unworthy rival, but for a man to prefer the desk of an assistant manager - that is an insult.””

Graham Greene

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Ambition is portrayed as a dying man’s freedom, while limitless ambition is both a curse and a drive.

In simple terms: Ambition can free or imprison.

Key Takeaway

Recognize ambition’s double‑edged nature.

Themes

ambition freedom human desire

Mood

introspective serious

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • personal relationships
  • creative pursuits
  • leadership challenges

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What drives your ambition?
  • When does ambition become harmful?
A Different Perspective

Unlimited ambition may lead to isolation.

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