I never did, nor do I believe I ever shall, give advice to…
“I never did, nor do I believe I ever shall, give advice to a woman who is setting out on a matrimonial voyage; first, because I never could advise one to marry without her own consent; and, secondly, I know it is to no purpose to advise her to refrain when she has obtained it. A woman very rarely asks an opinion or requires advice on such an occasion, till her resolution is formed; and then it is with the hope and expectation of obtaining a sanction, not that she means to be governed by your disapprobation, that she applies.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Advice on marriage should respect a woman's autonomy and timing.
In simple terms: Don't force advice on marriage; respect her choice.
Key Takeaway
Offer support, not control.
Themes
marriage
autonomy
advice
consent
gender roles
Mood
thoughtful
respectful
Type
ethical
relationship
When to use this quote
- family planning
- friendship counseling
- relationship guidance
Key Concepts
Ethics of counsel
personal agency
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to give personal advice?
- How can you honor someone's autonomy?
A Different Perspective
Cultural expectations may limit open dialogue.