Many people genuinely do not wish to be saints, and it is…
“Many people genuinely do not wish to be saints, and it is probable that some who achieve or aspire to sainthood have never felt much temptation to be human beings. If one could follow it to its psychological roots, one would, I believe, find that the main motive for "non-attachment" is a desire to escape from the pain of living, and above all from love, which, sexual or non-sexual, is hard work.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
People avoid saintly ideals because they fear the pain of love and humanity; non‑attachment often masks an escape from suffering.
In simple terms: Avoiding saintliness can hide a fear of love and life’s hardships.
Acknowledge pain rather than flee from it.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- spiritual practice
- mental health
- ethical decisions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does love cost you?
- Can non‑attachment be healthy?
Idealizing detachment may ignore the value of compassionate engagement.