Believe me, it is no time for words when the wounds are…
“Believe me, it is no time for words when the wounds are fresh and bleeding; no time for homilies when the lightning's shaft has smitten, and the man lies stunned and stricken. Then let the comforter be silent; let him sustain by his presence, not by his preaching; by his sympathetic silence, not by his speech.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
When suffering is acute, silence and presence are more healing than words or preaching.
In simple terms: Presence, not preaching, comforts the wounded.
Offer quiet support rather than unsolicited advice.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- grief counseling
- medical care
- friendship during crisis
- mental health support
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you needed silent support?
- How can you balance listening and speaking in others’ pain?
Silence can be misinterpreted as indifference if not paired with empathy.