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We mortals, men and women, devour many a disappointment…

“We mortals, men and women, devour many a disappointment between breakfast and dinner-time; keep back the tears and look a little pale about the lips, and in answer to inquiries say, "Oh, nothing!" Pride helps; and pride is not a bad thing when it only urges us to hide our hurts— not to hurt others.” quote by George Eliot
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“We mortals, men and women, devour many a disappointment between breakfast and dinner-time; keep back the tears and look a little pale about the lips, and in answer to inquiries say, "Oh, nothing!" Pride helps; and pride is not a bad thing when it only urges us to hide our hurts— not to hurt others.”

George Eliot

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People hide disappointment behind pride, masking pain while appearing fine.

In simple terms: Pride hides pain.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge feelings instead of masking them.

Themes

pride disappointment social façade

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • Workplace interactions
  • family gatherings
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

Emotional concealment social coping

Questions to Reflect On

  • When have you hidden hurt behind pride?
  • How can you express vulnerability safely?
A Different Perspective

Pride can prevent seeking help.

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