Propose not to a woman when she hath gotten a new frock…
“Propose not to a woman when she hath gotten a new frock, nor when she is puffed up with victories; when she reigneth and rejoiceth in her hour of triumph, come not nigh unto her; but when she be ill or weary, when she is cast down in spirit and needeth a comforter, then be thou ready, and make thy suit.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Advice to offer support when someone is vulnerable, not when they are proud or victorious.
In simple terms: Help when they’re down, not when they’re up.
Key Takeaway
Offer comfort in weakness.
Themes
compassion
timing
humility
Mood
thoughtful
empathetic
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- illness
- grief
- emotional distress
- personal setbacks
Key Concepts
empathy
social support
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you offered help at the wrong time?
- How can you gauge genuine need?
A Different Perspective
May be misread as exploiting weakness.