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“If it could come about that each of us were to describe his innermost secrets –secrets which one would hesitate to tell not only to people at large, but even to one’s closest friends, nay, to fear to admit even to one’s own self - the world would be filled with such a stench that each one of us…” quote by Fyodor Dostoyevsky
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““If it could come about that each of us were to describe his innermost secrets –secrets which one would hesitate to tell not only to people at large, but even to one’s closest friends, nay, to fear to admit even to one’s own self - the world would be filled with such a stench that each one of us would choke to death. That’s why, speaking in parenthesis, all our social conventions and niceties are so beneficial.””

Fyodor Dostoyevsky

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People hide deep truths, making social niceties essential to avoid collective discomfort.

In simple terms: Hidden secrets harm society; etiquette helps.

Key Takeaway

Value honesty but respect boundaries.

Themes

privacy social norms psychology

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy
  • team dynamics
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

existentialism self‑deception

Questions to Reflect On

  • What secrets do you keep from yourself?
  • How can etiquette be misused?
A Different Perspective

Not all secrets are harmful; openness can foster trust.

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