We feign pity when we want to demonstrate our ascendancy…
“We feign pity when we want to demonstrate our ascendancy over feelings of hostility: but usually in vain. Whenever we notice this,there is an accompanying surge in those hostile sensations.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
We pretend to feel pity to assert superiority over hostility, but this often fails and intensifies the hostile feelings.
In simple terms: Feigning pity to dominate anger backfires and fuels anger.
Avoid using pity as a power play.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- interpersonal conflict
- leadership
- self‑awareness
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does pretending to pity affect your relationships?
- Can genuine empathy replace this tactic?
Pity can be perceived as manipulation, worsening resentment.