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“I don’t mind the disapproving ones so much. It’s the tolerant ones I can’t stand, the ones who smile at Rose, who speak to her ever so slowly and gently. They don’t realize how very intelligent Rose really is. They’re just terrifically pleased with themselves. Look at me! they all but shout. See…” quote by Franny Billingsley
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“I don’t mind the disapproving ones so much. It’s the tolerant ones I can’t stand, the ones who smile at Rose, who speak to her ever so slowly and gently. They don’t realize how very intelligent Rose really is. They’re just terrifically pleased with themselves. Look at me! they all but shout. See how broad-minded I am! How wonderfully progressive, how fantastically twentieth century!”

Franny Billingsley

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Criticizing superficial tolerance that pretends to accept but actually patronizes an intelligent woman, exposing hidden condescension.

In simple terms: Fake tolerance can be condescending.

Key Takeaway

See beyond surface acceptance.

Themes

gender class pretension

Mood

irritated thoughtful

Type

critical reflective

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • education
  • social gatherings

Key Concepts

social critique power dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you recognize true allyship?
  • What actions show sincere support?
A Different Perspective

Tolerance without genuine respect is hollow.

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