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I’ve always wanted to be liked. It grieved me that I was…

“I’ve always wanted to be liked. It grieved me that I was treated with indifference. Left an orphan by Fortune, I wanted—like all orphans—to be the object of someone’s affection. This need has always been a hunger that went unsatisfied, and so thoroughly have I adapted to this inevitable hunger…” quote by Fernando Pessoa
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“I’ve always wanted to be liked. It grieved me that I was treated with indifference. Left an orphan by Fortune, I wanted—like all orphans—to be the object of someone’s affection. This need has always been a hunger that went unsatisfied, and so thoroughly have I adapted to this inevitable hunger that I sometimes wonder if I really feel the need to eat. Whatever be the case, life pains me.”

Fernando Pessoa

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker craves affection, feels pain from neglect, and adapts to an unfulfilled emotional hunger, equating it to a physical need.

In simple terms: Desire for love causes deep sorrow and adaptation.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and address unmet emotional needs.

Themes

loneliness desire adaptation pain identity

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary philosophical.

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • self‑reflection
  • therapy
  • building supportive networks

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology human need

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you identify emotional versus physical cravings?
  • What steps can you take to fulfill your need for connection?
A Different Perspective

Emotional hunger may be misinterpreted as physical need.

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