The faculty to think objectively is reason ; the emotional…
““The faculty to think objectively is reason ; the emotional attitude behind reason is that of humility . To be objective, to use one's reason, is possible only if one has achieved an attitude of humility, if one has emerged from the dreams of omniscience and omnipotence which one has as a child. Love, being dependent on the relative absence of narcissism, requires the developement of humility, objectivity and reason. I must try to see the difference between my picture of a person and his behavior, as it is narcissistically distorted, and the person's reality as it exists regardless of my interests, needs and fears.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Humility is essential for true objectivity and love; without it, reasoning is clouded by narcissism and ego.
In simple terms: Humility enables clear thinking and genuine love.
Practice humility to see others as they are.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
- leadership
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does humility change your perception of others?
- What steps can you take to reduce narcissistic bias?
Humility can be difficult to cultivate in competitive cultures.