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“You ought to choose both physician and friend, not the most agreeable, but the most useful.” quote by Epictetus
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“You ought to choose both physician and friend, not the most agreeable, but the most useful.”

Epictetus

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Choosing a physician who is also a friend ensures both competence and trust, prioritizing usefulness over mere agreeableness.

In simple terms: Pick a helpful, trustworthy doctor, not just a friendly one.

Key Takeaway

Value competence and trust in relationships.

Themes

friendship trust practicality

Mood

thoughtful pragmatic

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • medical decisions
  • personal advice
  • mentor selection
  • team building

Key Concepts

Stoicism ethical judgment relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance usefulness with emotional comfort?
  • When is agreeableness more important?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on usefulness may neglect emotional support.

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