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If your lot makes you cry and be wretched, get rid of it…

“If your lot makes you cry and be wretched, get rid of it and take another; strike out for yourself; don't listen to the shriek of your relations...don't be afraid of public opinion in the shape of the neighbours in the next house, when all the world is before you new and shining, and everything is…” quote by Elizabeth von Arnim
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“If your lot makes you cry and be wretched, get rid of it and take another; strike out for yourself; don't listen to the shriek of your relations...don't be afraid of public opinion in the shape of the neighbours in the next house, when all the world is before you new and shining, and everything is possible, if you will only be energetic and independent and seize opportunity by the scruff of the neck.”

Elizabeth von Arnim

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When circumstances cause suffering, take agency: change your situation, act boldly, and ignore external judgments.

In simple terms: Change your lot, act boldly.

Key Takeaway

Seize control, ignore critics.

Themes

self‑determination independence opportunity

Mood

determined optimistic

Type

advice motivational

When to use this quote

  • career change
  • relocation
  • entrepreneurship
  • personal crisis

Key Concepts

existentialism agency social pressure

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps can you take to change a painful situation?
  • How do you balance independence with community ties?
A Different Perspective

Bold action can lead to unforeseen risks.

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