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“I do not want to be relieved from any obligation,' said he, goaded by her calm manner. 'Fancied, or not fancied - I question not myself to know which - I choose to believe that I owe my very life to you - ay - smile, and think it an exaggeration if you will. I believe it, because it adds a value…” quote by Elizabeth Gaskell
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““I do not want to be relieved from any obligation,' said he, goaded by her calm manner. 'Fancied, or not fancied - I question not myself to know which - I choose to believe that I owe my very life to you - ay - smile, and think it an exaggeration if you will. I believe it, because it adds a value to that life to think - oh, Miss Hale!' continued he, lowering his voice to such a tender intensity of passion that she shivered and trembled before him, 'to think circumstance so wrought, that whenever I exult in existence henceforward, I may say to myself, "All this gladness in life, all honest pride in doing my work in the world, all this keen sense of being, I owe to her!" And it doubles the gladness, it makes the pride glow, it sharpens the sense of existence till I hardly know if it is pain or pleasure, to think that I owe it to one - nay, you must, you shall hear' - said he, stepping forwards with stern determination - 'to one whom I love, as I do not believe man ever loved woman before.””

Elizabeth Gaskell

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A man declares his profound gratitude and love, feeling his existence is enriched by the woman he loves, blurring joy and pain.

In simple terms: He feels his life’s meaning comes from loving a woman.

Key Takeaway

Recognize love’s power to transform purpose.

Themes

love gratitude existence passion identity

Mood

intense hopeful reflective

Type

literary romantic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage proposals
  • confessions of love
  • personal epiphanies
  • artistic expressions of devotion

Key Concepts

romanticism self‑transcendence emotional intensity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does love shape your sense of self?
  • Can gratitude become a burden?
A Different Perspective

The intensity may idealize love, overlooking realistic relational challenges.

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