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“He asks me which of them two I liked best. Perhaps I liked Mr. Harry Carson once--I don't know--I've forgotten; but I loved James Wilson, that's now on trial, above what tongue can tell--above all else on earth put together; and I love him now better than ever, though he has never known a word of…” quote by Elizabeth Gaskell
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““He asks me which of them two I liked best. Perhaps I liked Mr. Harry Carson once--I don't know--I've forgotten; but I loved James Wilson, that's now on trial, above what tongue can tell--above all else on earth put together; and I love him now better than ever, though he has never known a word of it till this minute... I never found out how dearly I loved another till one day, when James Wilson asked me to marry him, and I was very hard and sharp in my answer (for indeed, sir, I'd a deal to bear just then), and he took me at my word and left me; and from that day to this I've never spoken a word to him, or set eyes on him; though I'd fain have done so, to try and show him we had both been too hasty; for he'd not been gone out of my sight above a minute before I knew I loved--far above my life," said she, dropping her voice as she came to this second confession of the strength of her attachment. "But, if the gentleman asks me which I loved the best, I make answer, I was flattered by Mr. Carson, and pleased with his flattery; but James Wilson, I"-- She covered her face with her hands, to hide the burning scarlet blushes, which even dyed her fingers.””

Elizabeth Gaskell

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A woman reflects on deep, unspoken love and the pain of missed opportunities.

In simple terms: Unexpressed love can haunt a lifetime.

Key Takeaway

Speak your feelings before it's too late.

Themes

love regret memory

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • marriage proposals
  • confessions
  • personal narratives

Key Concepts

unrequited love self‑reflection

Questions to Reflect On

  • What holds us back from expressing love?
  • How can we reconcile past regrets?
A Different Perspective

May romanticify emotional turmoil.

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