If thou must love me, let it be for naught Except for…
““If thou must love me, let it be for naught Except for love's sake only. Do not say, 'I love her for her smile—her look—her way Of speaking gently,—for a trick of thought That falls in well with mine, and certes brought A sense of pleasant ease on such a day'— For these things in themselves, Belovèd, may Be changed, or change for thee—and love, so wrought, May be unwrought so. Neither love me for Thine own dear pity's wiping my cheeks dry: A creature might forget to weep, who bore Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby! But love me for love's sake, that evermore Thou mayst love on, through love's eternity. If Thou Must Love Me ””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Love should be valued for its pure essence, not for superficial traits that may fade, ensuring enduring devotion.
In simple terms: Love for love’s sake, not for fleeting qualities.
Key Takeaway
Seek lasting love beyond temporary attractions.
Themes
love
authenticity
eternity
selflessness
Mood
reflective
hopeful
introspective
Type
poetic
philosophical
romantic
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- long‑term relationships
- personal growth
Key Concepts
romanticism
philosophical
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What aspects of love do you cherish beyond the obvious?
- How can you nurture love that transcends superficial qualities?
A Different Perspective
Love based on external traits can dissolve when those traits change.