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But then neither revenge nor forgiveness change what…

“But then neither revenge nor forgiveness change what happened. They’re sideshows, of which forgiveness is the less attractive because it represents a collaboration with one’s persecutors. I don’t suppose that forgiveness was uppermost in the minds of people who were being nailed to a cross until…” quote by Edward St. Aubyn
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““But then neither revenge nor forgiveness change what happened. They’re sideshows, of which forgiveness is the less attractive because it represents a collaboration with one’s persecutors. I don’t suppose that forgiveness was uppermost in the minds of people who were being nailed to a cross until Jesus, if not the first man with a Christ complex still the most successful, wafted onto the scene. Presumably those who enjoyed inflicting cruelty could hardly believe their luck and set about popularizing the superstition that their victims could only achieve peace of mind by forgiving them.””

Edward St. Aubyn

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Forgiveness is portrayed as a powerless concession that does not alter past harm and may even aid oppressors.

In simple terms: Forgiveness often feels useless against real injustice.

Key Takeaway

Recognize when forgiveness is a personal choice, not a societal expectation.

Themes

justice forgiveness power victimhood

Mood

reflective somber

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • post‑war reconciliation
  • personal healing after abuse
  • legal restitution
  • community rebuilding

Key Concepts

moral philosophy psychology of trauma ethical dilemmas

Questions to Reflect On

  • When does forgiveness empower the victim versus the aggressor?
  • Can justice be achieved without forgiveness?
A Different Perspective

Forgiveness can be co‑opted by perpetrators to legitimize their actions.

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