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“Perhaps, if I hadn’t been, once before—I mean, if I’d always been a prudent deliberate Ralston, it would have been kinder to Tina in the end.” Dr. Lanskell sank his gouty bulk into the chair behind his desk, and beamed at her through ironic spectacles. “I hate in-the-end kindnesses: they’re about…” quote by Edith Wharton
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““Perhaps, if I hadn’t been, once before—I mean, if I’d always been a prudent deliberate Ralston, it would have been kinder to Tina in the end.” Dr. Lanskell sank his gouty bulk into the chair behind his desk, and beamed at her through ironic spectacles. “I hate in-the-end kindnesses: they’re about as nourishing as the third day of cold mutton.””

Edith Wharton

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Prudent caution can become cold, lacking genuine compassion.

In simple terms: Being overly careful can feel unkind.

Key Takeaway

Balance prudence with empathy.

Themes

caution kindness relationships

Mood

sober critical

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • family decisions
  • professional mentorship

Key Concepts

ethics social dynamics psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • When does prudence become harmful?
  • How can you show kindness without overstepping?
A Different Perspective

Excessive caution may prevent necessary risk‑taking.

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