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Do you know, I began to see what marriage is for. It’s to…

“Do you know, I began to see what marriage is for. It’s to keep people away from each other. Sometimes I think that two people who love each other can be saved from madness only by the things that come between them—children, duties, visits, bores, relations—the things that protect married people…” quote by Edith Wharton
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““Do you know, I began to see what marriage is for. It’s to keep people away from each other. Sometimes I think that two people who love each other can be saved from madness only by the things that come between them—children, duties, visits, bores, relations—the things that protect married people from each other. We’ve been too close together—that has been our sin. We’ve seen the nakedness of each other’s souls.””

Edith Wharton

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriage serves as a protective barrier, keeping spouses at a distance through duties and obligations, preventing intimate exposure

In simple terms: Marriage creates distance through responsibilities

Key Takeaway

Recognize the balance between intimacy and independence in marriage

Themes

marriage distance protection

Mood

analytical contemplative

Type

novel psychological

When to use this quote

  • family counseling
  • marital therapy
  • personal reflection
  • relationship building

Key Concepts

psychology of relationships social expectations

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do duties shape marital intimacy?
  • What boundaries protect or hinder love?
A Different Perspective

Focusing only on distance may neglect emotional closeness

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