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I don’t understand,” she said at last. She understood very…

“I don’t understand,” she said at last. She understood very well, but she no longer wished to be absolutely truthful. “How are you going to stop him talking about it?” “I have a feeling that talk is a thing he will never do.” “I, too, intend to judge him charitably. But unfortunately I have met the…” quote by E.M. Forster
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““I don’t understand,” she said at last. She understood very well, but she no longer wished to be absolutely truthful. “How are you going to stop him talking about it?” “I have a feeling that talk is a thing he will never do.” “I, too, intend to judge him charitably. But unfortunately I have met the type before. They seldom keep their exploits to themselves.” “Exploits?” cried Lucy, wincing under the horrible plural. “My poor dear, did you suppose that this was his first? Come here and listen to me. I am only gathering it from his own remarks. Do you remember that day at lunch when he argued with Miss Alan that liking one person is an extra reason for liking another?” “Yes,” said Lucy, whom at the time the argument had pleased. “Well, I am no prude. There is no need to call him a wicked young man, but obviously he is thoroughly unrefined. Let us put it down to his deplorable antecedents and education, if you wish. But we are no farther on with our question. What do you propose to do?” An idea rushed across Lucy’s brain, which, had she thought of it sooner and made it part of her, might have proved victorious. “I propose to speak to him,” said she. Miss Bartlett uttered a cry of genuine alarm.””

E.M. Forster

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Characters grapple with truth, judgment, and social expectations, revealing the tension between honesty and politeness.

In simple terms: People balance honesty with social courtesy.

Key Takeaway

Consider when to be frank versus diplomatic.

Themes

honesty social norms judgment communication

Mood

thoughtful reflective

Type

literary dialogue

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • workplace conflict
  • family discussions
  • negotiating truth

Key Concepts

social psychology moral dilemma cultural expectations

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is honesty more harmful than helpful?
  • How do cultural norms shape our truthfulness?
A Different Perspective

Truth may harm relationships if not handled sensitively.

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