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“At my age one's seldom amazed," he said, smiling. "Marriage is too absurd in any case. It begins and continues for such very slight reasons. The social business props it up on one side, and the theological business on the other, but neither of them are marriage, are they? I've friends who can't…” quote by E.M. Forster
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““At my age one's seldom amazed," he said, smiling. "Marriage is too absurd in any case. It begins and continues for such very slight reasons. The social business props it up on one side, and the theological business on the other, but neither of them are marriage, are they? I've friends who can't remember why they married, no more can their wives. I suspect that it mostly happens haphazard, though afterwards various noble reasons are invented. About marriage I am cynical.””

E.M. Forster

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriage is portrayed as a socially and religiously constructed institution that often lacks clear personal purpose, leading to cynicism.

In simple terms: Marriage seems pointless and forced.

Key Takeaway

Question the reasons behind your commitments.

Themes

cynicism marriage social constructs

Mood

skeptical reflective

Type

critical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • family planning
  • social expectations
  • religious traditions

Key Concepts

Institutional critique existential doubt

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you ever feel your relationships are shaped by external expectations?
  • What personal meaning can you find in marriage?
A Different Perspective

It may overlook genuine emotional bonds that can form despite societal pressures.

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