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“He wondered seriously if love wasn't a feeling at all but a simple characterless state of shared isolation. If you were alone with a woman your feelings might change from moment to moment but the circumstance of your shared fate did not change. Maybe that's where the love was, in the combined…” quote by E.L. Doctorow
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““He wondered seriously if love wasn't a feeling at all but a simple characterless state of shared isolation. If you were alone with a woman your feelings might change from moment to moment but the circumstance of your shared fate did not change. Maybe that's where the love was, in the combined circumstance.””

E.L. Doctorow

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love may be less a fleeting feeling and more a shared state of isolation, where two people find connection through a common circumstance rather than emotion alone.

In simple terms: Love as shared isolation, not just feeling.

Key Takeaway

Seek connection through shared experiences.

Themes

love philosophy existence connection

Mood

thoughtful introspective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • loneliness
  • crisis
  • support groups
  • therapy

Key Concepts

shared fate emotional depth human condition

Questions to Reflect On

  • What shared circumstances have deepened your relationships?
  • Can love exist without emotional feeling?
A Different Perspective

Reducing love to shared isolation may overlook the importance of emotional intimacy.

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