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“Depending on how we handle them, feelings can lead to great trouble. But the feelings themselves just are. In that sense, feelings are like arms or legs. If you hit or kick someone, then your arms or legs are causing trouble. But there’s nothing inherently wrong with arms or legs. The same with…” quote by Douglas Stone
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““Depending on how we handle them, feelings can lead to great trouble. But the feelings themselves just are. In that sense, feelings are like arms or legs. If you hit or kick someone, then your arms or legs are causing trouble. But there’s nothing inherently wrong with arms or legs. The same with feelings.””

Douglas Stone

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Feelings are neutral tools; misuse causes trouble, but they are not inherently bad.

In simple terms: Feelings are like limbs—useful but can cause harm.

Key Takeaway

Use feelings responsibly, not as excuses.

Themes

emotion responsibility behavior

Mood

reflective balanced

Type

practical insightful

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • personal relationships
  • team management

Key Concepts

ethics psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • When have feelings caused unintended harm?
  • How can you harness feelings constructively?
A Different Perspective

Feelings are hard to control and may be misinterpreted.

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