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“We suffer these things and they fade form memory. But daily, hourly, to give up our own possessions and especially to subordinate our own impulses and wishes to to others - these are hard, hard things; and I don't think they ever get any easier. You can strip yourself, you can be stripped, but…” quote by Dorothy Day
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““We suffer these things and they fade form memory. But daily, hourly, to give up our own possessions and especially to subordinate our own impulses and wishes to to others - these are hard, hard things; and I don't think they ever get any easier. You can strip yourself, you can be stripped, but still you will reach out like an octopus to seek your own comfort, your untroubled time, your ease, your refreshment. It may mean books or music - the gratification of the inner sense - or it may mean food and drink, coffee and cigarettes. The one kind of giving up is no easier than the other.””

Dorothy Day

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Balancing personal comforts with self‑denial is a constant struggle; both spiritual and material sacrifices are equally challenging.

In simple terms: Giving up comforts is hard, no matter the form.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and accept the difficulty of self‑discipline.

Themes

self‑discipline comfort spirituality

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • daily routines
  • stress management
  • personal growth
  • mindfulness
  • habit formation

Key Concepts

materialism asceticism human desire

Questions to Reflect On

  • What comforts are you willing to relinquish?
  • How does self‑denial affect your sense of freedom?
A Different Perspective

Hardship may increase as desires intensify; true ease requires deeper inner work.

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