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I resist being called the "mom" to my dogs because I fear…

“I resist being called the "mom" to my dogs because I fear infantilization of the adult canines and misidentification of the important fact that I wanted dogs, not babies. My multi-species family is not about surrogacy and substitutes; we are trying to live other tropes, other metaplasms.” quote by Donna Haraway
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““I resist being called the "mom" to my dogs because I fear infantilization of the adult canines and misidentification of the important fact that I wanted dogs, not babies. My multi-species family is not about surrogacy and substitutes; we are trying to live other tropes, other metaplasms.””

Donna Haraway

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker resists gendered labeling of pet ownership, emphasizing adult agency and rejecting infantilizing language.

In simple terms: She refuses to be called “mom” to dogs to avoid infantilization.

Key Takeaway

Respect adult identity in relationships with animals.

Themes

identity agency human‑animal language gender roles

Mood

critical thoughtful

Type

analytical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • pet ownership discussions
  • activist writing
  • family dynamics

Key Concepts

feminist theory animal studies social constructs

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does language shape our view of animals?
  • When is affectionate language appropriate?
A Different Perspective

Counterpoint: may overlook affectionate aspects of pet parenting.

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