Most fundamentally, I used to write because I received…
““Most fundamentally, I used to write because I received positive feedback. To a guy who was picked on pretty relentlessly through a lot of his childhood, the respect and affection of students and teachers is addictive. It was a couple years after grad school that I realized that a need for affirmation wasn’t a good enough reason to keep writing, especially in the face of rejection after rejection after even personal rejection, and that if I was going to do it, I had to acknowledge that it was going to take my whole life. The decision to do it until I’m dead has made the writing and the writing life so much easier.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Initial writing driven by praise, later realized affirmation alone insufficient; commitment became lifelong.
In simple terms: Writing began for praise, later required deeper commitment.
Commit beyond external validation.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- authorial practice
- long‑term projects
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What sustains you beyond praise?
- How do you handle rejection?
Reliance on affirmation can hinder intrinsic motivation.